Episode #49 It's Not Your Fault, But It Is Your Problem To Solve
You’ve read the books.
You’ve done the breathwork.
You’ve tried to fix the parts of you that still feel off.
But what if the reason you still feel stuck… isn’t yours to carry?
In this mind-expanding episode, Landy sits down with Amy Vasterling—future-focused public speaker, intuitive, and creator of The Model—to talk about the hidden dynamics that keep high-capacity women stuck in cycles of control, people-pleasing, and silent self-abandonment.
Amy has spent the last 22 years asking one powerful question:
Why don’t all people thrive?
Her answer dismantles everything we thought we knew about healing, self-expression, and emotional maturity—and offers a new pathway rooted in natural equality and personal knowing.
Together, Landy and Amy explore:
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Why enabling is a form of control—and how it keeps women small
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How fear blocks self-expression and what it takes to shift into embodied truth
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What The Model reveals about narcissism, power, and the internalized hierarchy
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Why “healing” can become performative—and what freedom actually looks like
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How to trust your intuition (without outsourcing your power)
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What it really means to step out of the fixed model and into a new way of being
If you’ve been doing all the right things and still don’t feel like yourself…
this conversation will change how you see your life—and yourself.
It’s not about doing more.
It’s about letting go of the old system and finally coming home to your truth.
👤 About Amy Vasterling:
Amy Cerny Vasterling is a future-focused public speaker, author, intuitive, and teacher who has spent over two decades conducting observational research on human behavior. Her work centers on dismantling unconscious systems of control—especially the hidden ways we uphold hierarchy, narcissism, and inequality within ourselves and our relationships.
Through her signature concept The Model, Amy guides individuals and communities to collapse control and reclaim their full expression—creating the conditions for what she calls natural equality, where everyone thrives. She’s known for her fierce clarity, big vision, and intuitive ability to help others see what they couldn’t name.
Her upcoming book Know: Where the Status Quo Ends and You Come to Life releases in September 2025.
🔗 Connect with Amy Vasterling:
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Website: amyvasterling.com
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Instagram: @amyvasterling
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YouTube: Amy Cerny Vasterling
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Facebook: Amy Intuitive Pathfinder
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LinkedIn: Amy Vasterling
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She deserves to come home to herself, too.